Getting ready for his dad's wedding, Nick adjusts his tie. This day will also officially marry him to my family. Together, we have all come through a complicated love affair that started secretly many years ago and burst out in the open in the months following the great deluge. We have scrapped and resented then accepted and loved our way to this day. And, while a wedding won't fix everything that's gone before, it can tie a big, beautiful ribbon around all of us and bind us together for life. Yes, it can. #chalmatia #wedding